Thanks TheByzantine (is it ok if I generally call you Byz? don't want to offend you but I keep doing it in my head)

I'll look up where hospice and Salvation Army are. I got coffee, was going to sit outside and read but sad in a puddle. So I'm here and coping instead, just hate how my days have to go into "be safe" mode ---> boring ---> in some ways increases the cycle