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Originally Posted by crystalrose
Has anyone out there experienced misscarriage. I have at 11 weeks, about 8 years ago, all the memories were blocked out for years but the memories are back and it is so sad. It is in my mind alot latley and I dont know what to do about it.  my baby would have been 7 this year. 
any advice would be appreciated.
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I didnt have a miscarriage, but I lost my child 5.5 months into my pregnancy. I was told the baby would not make it. We induced labor .The heart was growing in the stomach, and multiple issues. They were right. The baby was in bad shape. Every year in july I go through a funk. I have not been able to have children after this due to a hemmorage and other issues. So the pain I have felt will never go away. You just need to know that things happen for a reason
Losing a baby is difficult. My son would have been 11 this year and the pain is so very real. I just pray that my son is my guardian angel looking down on me. The way i feel is this. I think about my son a LOT. I dont ever want to forget him or what he meant to me. As we love our children before they are even born. Just go through the waves as they come. This is all normal behavior. You are a mother. You will never forget.
I hope this helps. I also joined a local group for parents who lost a child.
Colleen