For YEARS I've been trying to convince my "bf" he's Bipolar, way, way, way. before we even started dating...(his moods, behavior,reactions)...Only to find myself being dxd with Bipolar II... Go figure

I understand the connection you're talking about. He described it to me so acutely.He said " You and I are the same person, who dwell in different bodies, so as to find some sort of balance".
This man might not be a "conventional" bf, but he's my best friend, and what we share, is all that either of us have to offer right now... I know he loves me to no end, but I really hurt him with my emo crap last night, and he's very emotionally volatile too, so I know I cut deep, God I hope he forgives me, soon...

So I think, there must be some truth in what you're saying

PS.sorry didn't mean to use your thread as an outlet, I've been convincing myself his silence is not a problem, that I don't need him anyway, loada crap! that is.