Zorah...Ozzie's statement seems to have been made in an emotionally charged state. Perhaps when the emotions settle she'd state that differently? Who knows. I feel quite strongly against that statement of hers.
I can tell you that I've been a user on John's sites since 1999, and have never seen him act dishonorably. He's human, he has feelings, issues, etc., just like the rest of us. I love that about him. Some admins act like mysterious blank slates.
It's probably a good idea for you to get to know John youself by reading his posts and going to his chat, rather than listening to anyone else's thoughts on him...including mine!
Take care, emmy