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Old Nov 16, 2003, 10:44 PM
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First off Welcome to the fourms

having trust issues is a small thing.. I could say trust me on this but, you may not. Which I fully understnad.

I have some trust issues with my ex for he lies to me all the time.. Right now, he is lieing to me about why he does not want to come in and so forth.. to see his daugter..
Trust is to me something that is "earned" not giving freely.. if you do not show me I can trust you, wich every one has differnt things to show if you can trust them.

So take it slow, people have to earn your trust. and giving it can be hard if you have been hurt, or do not want to let them in.. Letting others in, has to be all up to you. not them.. You hve to be able to turst yourself first then them.. it is all steps..

Just like Penut said.. Keep posting and maybe we can help you work out this feeling you have

<font color=purple>The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
- G.K. Chesterton
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