Children's brains are miraculously adaptable (by Eloise42)...I find hope in this possibility as well. Imjustadad, I admire your perseverance and dedication. It will be difficult but you are on the right track...What I see as hopeful is that your daughter seem to have relative AWARENESS. She is very young indeed and given the BD, there is much confusion about how she really feels (which must be very frustrating to her). I was thinking, could you process her feelings with her in a way that her age could understand? This may increase her understanding of how she feels. You may probably consult her therapist/doctor on how to do the processing. My prayers for you and for her.