Thanks for the feedback and advice.

Right now I'm not at all sure my husband loves me. It's not a matter of him not displaying emotions. He doesn't have any. He doesn't even comprehend the word "feel," so how can he feel love, which is an emotion? And I've seen him display more compassion and empathy toward our cats than toward me. Maybe he'd love me if I had pointed ears and a tail.

I'm hoping some men will jump in and offer a male perspective.