Theodora,

It's hard for me to say what I'm trying to say I guess. I know what I want to say, I just can't put it into words. I wasn't referring to a woman being clingy or needy, and if a man likes it or not, I was wondering why it seems that some men see it as that when a woman wants to get affectionate or wants to spend alot of time together. I guess it depends on both people in the relationship. For example if I wanted to spend time with this person, I wouldn't want them to see me as clingy. I couldn't help it if I enjoyed their company so much that I wanted to be around them a lot. I agree CindyLuWho, that affectionate does not have to equal to needy.