Hmm sometimes I feel like this, I love sex but I don't have the need to have it as much as my bf does, and although it can be seen as a stupid need it's just as significant to them as cuddling and feeling loved is.

If you're comfortable and love someone and they really love you, they will wait till you're comfortable with the idea. If you are then it's okay.

But yes sometimes I wish I could go to my bfs house and just cuddle the whole time and not be expected to take my pants off >o<; sometimes I'm just not in the mood.