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Old Jun 09, 2010, 08:58 PM
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* I'm going through this hell when all my friends (or ex-friends) are happy and living life as they ought to be
You dont know that. They may be secretly unhappy. People often present facades to others.

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* I had a father who never gave me the things I needed as a beloved son
There are unfortunately people in this world who do not do the right things. I'm sorry.
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* I have to drink myself to sleep every night
You dont have to, you choose to. It's self medication and should be a warning flag to you that something is amiss in your life.
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* I see random people on the streets who are with a significant other
Just because they are with a significatn other doesnt mean their life is better than yours, there are plenty of people in horrible marriages/relationships. You have no idea what their lives are like.

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* My ex-girlfriend betrayed my trust, my heart and it still lingers...
Time heals broken hearts, I know it may seem impossible now but you will feel better with time.
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* God remains to be silent and non-responsive
God responds. He is there, perhaps it is you that isnt listening.

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* I've become totally helpless and incompetent
Depression often makes one feel this.
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* I've lost a lot of my friends
Another symptom of depression.
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* I feel alone .... so very alone and no one understands me
You're right, no one does because they are not you, but we can try our best to empathize with you.

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“In depression . . . faith in deliverance, in ultimate restoration, is absent. The pain is unrelenting, and what makes the condition intolerable is the...feeling felt as truth...that no remedy will come -- not in a day, an hour, a month, or a minute. . . . It is hopelessness even more than pain that crushes the soul.”-William Styron
Thanks for this!
Choson