i agree byz. i only meant it's better to be a little vague initially rather than lie. i always think it's best to be honest but if it is very casual dating i wouldn't think it's necessary to go into great detail unless the other person really felt they needed to know. some people don't date outside their faith and then i think it would be necessary to be upfront from the beginning.

no one likes being lied to but we're all human and we all make mistakes. that's how i see it.