Hello, SueA. Here are a couple sites that may help you find professional help:
http://forums.psychcentral.com/forumdisplay.php?f=117
http://211.org/
http://www.nami.org/Template.cfm?Sec...iateFinder.cfm
You might also talk to hospitals or clinics about support groups.
You are a valuable member of this Community. I hope you can get some help and find some friends.
Good luck.