Of course, the choice is yours. Family is not always the best avenue to take. Witholding from them about where you are in life can be the best thing to do if you know that you may spiral downhill because of their comments. My family is not supportive. Or perhaps I should say, they are only supportive in what "they" believe in. They like to judge me and what I do because it is not in alignment or congruent with what they want. I still have two sisters that get together and gossip about me. I hear it through the grapevine. For pete's sake, I thought this only happened in elementary & high school! So in the end, there are things I choose to speak openly about because I know their comments don't bother me, but there are other things I choose not to speak openly about because I don't want to hear there insults.