i am in my 40s and i have never had a sex life, ever. (except for sa). i guess is it partly due to the sa and the fact i had few friends in or out of school. i never had a boyfriend or dated. any one else this age and had this experience. i felt like i am the only person in the world in this situation. now i think it will never change cause it is all i know and am familiar with even though i know it really isnt right.