Has your T officially d(x)ed you as narcissistic or histrionic or both or neither?

You said you want him to love you for you. You can start by showing all of your true colors to this guy. Mental health issues and all. If he thinks you're a nut case and bails out, then he isn't the right one to "love you for you". And then you'll have saved yourself a lot of heartache instead of hiding the real you, letting yourselves both fall in too deeply, and having him find out later.

If he really loves you for you, then he'll be compassionate about your mental health stuff and help you work through it.

What do you love so much about him, anyway? What's he all about?