perpetuallysad, I expect you are getting mighty tired of me suggesting calling someone. When is gets to the point you feel you are being pushed out of your house, I suggest it is time to act.
Knowledge is power. My thought is for you to call the Child Desertion Unit and explain what is going on, including your thought of wanting to move to escape the stress this problem is causing. Ask the Case Worker what if anything can be done so you do not have to be the surrogate mother for these unfortunate children.

Child Desertion Unit

• Kynda Walker, Case Worker
• P.O. Box 2
• Jackson, MS 39205
• Telephone: 601-359-4250

As an adjunct to this discussion, in theory no one is above the law--certainly not a police officer. While practicing as an attorney, I tested that theory more than once. I was not always successful but more learned that malfeasance is not acceptable than walked away with a smile on their face.

In any event, I have many times called agencies anonymously to get information useful in cases I was working on. If the Case Worker cannot help you, ask to be directed to the agency that can. Once you know more you will be in a better position to decide what you want to do.

Good luck.