Welcome to the Community, sherr071. There are many lonely people here.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...d-it-aint-easy
http://www.psychologytoday.com/print/43621
http://mentalhealth.samhsa.gov/publi...716/making.asp

Are you seeing a therapist for the depression? If so, talk to the therapist about this concern.

Good luck.