I am so sorry he is putting you through this. I know you know this bs. As I read your post I kept hearing that song in my head...that Patty Labelle song. Anyone got a link to it for our strong woman friend here? "so go, walk out the door, just turn around now cause your not welcome anymore. I should have changed that stupid lock, should have made you leave your key if I would have known that you'd be back to bother me...!" Come on, join everybody!