Well it's like this I have to have ED. Why? we buy food for 9 people that is hard enough. My Son has a girl friend they eat four four. So there nothing for us to eat. So my food goes to them. I don't want then to starve. I'm trying to get them on a meal plan but it's not working. So every time I seem them eat all that food. I come at him saying fine i'll starve ok. than he's gets feel mad at me. all the food we bought a week ago is all gone. When I do want something it's all gone they ate it. The food they eat everything even in the middle of nite there not eating a snacks. They actually eat a meal for 4. It's so hard to keep doing this even when they have a friend over he feeds them to. Can anybody give me advice?