Hi I know what you mean. Wanted to say something I am a survivor of incest by my father among other relatives. My father is now in prison now. He went there 2 years ago this happen when I was 5 and ended when I was twelve. I'm now 46 yes it took a long time to get him put there. I've been married for 25 years. Yes I do have issues still. I look at it this way. I was never loved as a kid. So I yearn for someone to love me the right way. into my adult hood. He's a very gentle person loves me very much. So I figured I would learn to love him they way he loves me. I had a hard time getting past all the abuse especially when my Father was walking free and was still abusing children. my father only got 6 years he took a plea bargain. He's gets out in 4 years. I'll be waiting to finish him off It will be legal don't worry.