Hello my friend. This is a tough situation for both of you. For sure do try to take care of your own needs while you are supporting your husband, not only because your important too, , but because if you go down, too, it will just add to the depression and fear that your husband is experiencing.

I really did spend my whole life trying to adjust my mood to the mood of my mentally ill Mom, and it didn't help her and just made me terribly unhappy.

Your DH is very lucky to have a wife like you, ((((Never Forgoten)))) = his depression will lift and it won't be good if you have been made sick by it, (especially with all of the other stresses that you have right now). XOXO, Peanut

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