wow angelbud sounds all to familiar... i just wish i knew of a way to make him realize its wrong and he needs to stop, i just found more womens phone numbers on my computer desk that he wrote down while i was out of town for a few days, and he has stopped talking to the girl in my original post and has cut me off from so much as touching his phone for any reason. but as i already knew he had been up to dirt, when i did look at his phone last night he had new pictures of his chest and arms as well as other parts of his body... they were not there last week and why on earth would you need them in your phone if your not sending them to someone? i have stopped confronting him on most things because i just cant handle him acting like its me that has done something wrong. i have gotten to the point that i dont really even want to be around him anymore, the sad part is i dont really think he cares, if he did don't you think he would say something or show some type of emotion? i no longer hold him at night and don't even have much to say to him when were home together, but he seems ok with that... i just dont know maybe its time to leave....