Ie you can look through your families pictures, try this...look at the photos that are candid, random, not posed for. At look at them. Notice who is interacting with whom. Notice smiles or the lack of them. Are they real smiles. Who stands alone. Who is obviously absent in the photos. Who keeps their distance from whom that you have not noticed before. Who looks loopy, who is off by themselves. Who is smiling, who is not. A picture says a thousand words as you study the pics. It is very revealing. Pictures do not lie. Come back here and share what you can... And with your t too!