Okay. If you want to arm yourself with a little knowledge, there is a really good sticky about power and control in relationships. Seriously though...we are not trying to be flippant or unnurturing. We are trying to help keep yourself safe. And I wouldn't be worried about him breaking up with you, he knows he has you but at this point, if you tried to break it off with him, you couldn't pry him away from you. These people are cowards and need to maintain the illusion that they would leave...doesn't happen. Happy reading!