Yeah those too! We have some family DVD's made and they are very telling. I noticed we all display a sense of humor as defense mechanism...ya I got it too! Could you guess? The latest group of photos is at my dad's birthday...a celebration. I wore a black dress and no smile. Had not noticed that until the pics were developed. I looked at my fathers face. After 2 strokes he was pretty much not there...sad. But it was a good party. Something for him to remember. As a kid I was shy, after the military no. The Army as theraputic...for me yeah! So how about you all?