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Okey, dokey...I posted about the "rollercoaster" weekend I had with the old flame. Several of you here warned me, but, hey, I was on a "high." I emailed him reflecting that last evening. Today, I rec'd a rather business-like letter, mentioning the wife several times, and saying I should consider anything he said here while with me as "unsaid." I felt ill at reading that. Thank God I didn't do anything foolish! He rec'd a phone call from wife each evening while he was with me and rather brushed her off, and after the phone call, swept me into his arms. I was at once taken aback, but at the same time melting!
I am now thinking it would be better for my own mental health to refrain from future emails from him, and to be "gone" when he returns here in Nov. for the extended legal hearing.
I admit, I'm vulnerable.
Seeker

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i don't know the history and please excuse my tone but he sounds like an arse. no one deserves to be treated that way, don't let him get away with it. he's playing you, and his wife, for idiots. his attitude seems unbelievably arrogant,but it'll only stay that way if you let it. if you let him get away with treating you both like people who can be lied to and strung along, he will get away with it, and his attitude towards you will worsen. you know it's wrong, please extricate yourself as soon as you can - *no-one* deserves to be treated that way. xx