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Old Jun 12, 2010, 11:33 PM
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I'm just gonna be straight out, this guy is a pig, not your friend. NO friend ever does a thing like that to another friend. Hell, nobody should even do that in a relationship.
I don't think he's bloody lonely at all, I think he's making excuses to get laid, 'oh I'm so miserable and alone, I know I'll start groping my female friends, THAT will help me score for sure!'.
Like I've never heard a million excuses myself.
You really gotta stand up about it, I know that it hard. When I was younger one of my friends brothers used to 'like' me, he was older than me and all he really wanted was to have sex. He would touch me all the time I was there, he'd come up behind me and put his hand on me. One day I finally stood up for myself, he was complaining 'can I touch you just one more time? Just on the leg?' but I was adamant that if he touched me again all hell would break. Some guys just need to be told.
Are you withheld in telling him to leave you alone? Perhaps next time he does it scream at him, and if he comes up with his bullsh-- excuses tell him 'I don't care what your damn excuses are, touch me again and I'll call the police'.
If this guys intelligence level means he has to be yelled at like a 3 year old, then so be it. A lot of guys only do these things because they get away with it.