Yeah, thanks for sharing Rayna. ((((( Rayna )))))

We are both relatively new to sobriety, but since I relaped, he has more time than me. We've both promised eachother that our individual recovery comes first, then we can spend time together. He goes to his meetings during lunch break from work and I still go to my regular meetings as well. We told eachother if the first time one of us skipped a meeting to go see the other, we would take a step back and remain friends until we were stronger in our sobriety. So far it's worked out good, but it's still the beginning. I respect him very much and his determination to stay clean and do what he's gotta do to stay that way. He made it very clear to me that I would not get in the way of his recovery and if I did, we'd have to part seperate ways. So maybe it'll continue to work how it's working now.