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Originally Posted by free_spirit13
Yeah that does seem to fit the criteria, especially if it's happened with more than one person-- friendships count too. It's great though that you have someone willing to stick by you. I haven't yet been that lucky-- I've broken so many relationships in the past (friends, boyfriends, etc.) that I tend to keep people at a distance then end it when it seems like it's getting too close. Not a fun way to go through life.
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so if a person has a history,a long history of frequent breakups/makeups from the time they started dating,that's a sign something is not right?? Of course if one is with a jerk,that is one thing,but to breakup with a "good guy" for really no reason except they can't tolerate "closeness" for long,well i think BPD could be a good cause.And you are right,it's NOT a good way to go thru life.It's quite lonely,actually but all at the same time,if one knows no other way.....