I read what you have to say, and I see myself. One of the problems with this is, all the things they see as such a turn-on, are for us the biggest turn-offs. As far as I'm concerned there is nothing sexy about watching a man flapping his southerly bits around in the belief your going to drop to your knees because of your inability to resist what's before you. I used to laugh at these antics, but now they just make me feel sick. The only things these men want, is everything they can get and they don't care that they trample all over our self-esteem and self-worth to get it. As women, we deserve to be treated far better than this, as human beings we have the right to say enough is enough. So, I have to ask myself, What is it about women in our position, what is it that we need, that we can't just say STOP?. This is only my opinion but I think it is part of the answer, and it happens over a period of time so we don't even realize what's being done. An insidious and slow moving manipulation and brainwashing until one day the person we used to be and the beliefs we used to have about what's right and wrong for us, becomes confused with their conviction that if we disagree, we're the one's with the problems.

We're not.
They are.

Hold that thought. What you think and how you feel is what's important.

Take care,