Subject: What makes us different?
Author: zenhussy
Posted on: 08/26/04 08:47 PM

Hello. I think you should begin a new thread and let us talk about time and losing time and being out and all those different words different systems call it. And AAAAALLLLLLSSSSOOO we could talk about how different it might feel from a part and a host . And why parts get time. ANNNDDDD why our stuff is never where we leave it. --fgh

Well fgh I agree a new post is needed for these things.

Losing time is a huge factor in my life this year........gets scarier the more it happens instead of becoming more familiar.

I'm not sure if my inners would post so you might only hear the 'host' perspective from me mostly. I would love to hear from others though as I need to learn how to better communicate with those inside. I haven't been the kindest 'host' one could be............however I didn't know any better and now that I do I no longer do those things.

As for things not being where we put them? Ay yi yi it is stinky to be losing important things all the time and being stressed about how stupid it feels to be an adult with the coping abilities of a wounded teen or a frightened little girl.

Yeppers fgh.........a new thread to start talking about sharing time and other matters was due. Here it is.

Yer turn!!

<font color="purple"> --zh </font>
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Subject: Re: What makes us different?
Author: mlyn
Posted on: 08/26/04 09:17 PM

Glad you started a new thread.
I loose time.
It's ok until someone (3D world) says something that we did or said or where we've been and I don't know that I did. Right away I want to call them a liar. I know that's not right so now I try hard to not get angry and will listen.
I don't understand the host stuff I guess since I'm out a lot maybe I'm a host but threre are others too are they hosts too?
It really gets frustrating loosing stuff or when somebody (rolling of eyes) puts it somewhere else and doesn't tell me.
I'm not a very good host if that's what I am either cuz I don't like others coming out and I get mad at them. I'm learning to be nice.
It's really scary getting lost. I'll be on my way somewhere a place I've been a million times and then all of a sudden nothing looks familiar and I have no clue where I am. finally someone who knows helps.
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Subject: Re: What makes us different?
Author: fgh
Posted on: 08/27/04 07:27 AM

WEEELLLL I get mad too. BE cause I do not feel like a part. I am just me! And then some body else just takes my time and I do not get to finish what I want or watching on tv (I DO get to watch a movie once in a while). And I get scared when some one gets lost and I find out and then I really hide. I do not want to be the one stuck some place because of them.
You can leave notes places to tell the others they can come here and write. You might have to tell how to do that and who is safest to write to. We used to get mad a lot but if we talk more then it is better. We do not talk much any more though. I do not know why. Too much stuff going on I think. But I get to come here yiippee! Our doctor says the person who HAS to do some thing HAS to tell the others maybe even OUT LOUD that this is real important and to let them drive or do what ever it is. That has helped us lots! We could not do it with out our doctor though. He helps lots. jj
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Subject: Re: What makes us different?
Author: mlyn
Posted on: 08/27/04 08:20 AM

thanx jj theres lot of fighting with others in our group and I dont like it. Im sure glad you are here. we havent been to T for a long time and I miss him. one time I tried to drive but I got in troubl and I promisd that I would not do it any more. I am not old enuff to drive. I am 9
mny

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October 6th, 2005
sadly this was all that we had of this thread from old daily digests (used to be called daily archives) sent to e-mail. we recall this thread had more responses and we grieve the loss of the words of support and education that the members took their time to type out and post.

we're working through our grief. we're not carrying on. we're not raising a stink. we're dealing as best we're able with discovering the loss of many of our posts and threads and w/o explanations that make sense of all loose ends.

we're learning that we often have to work with things that don't make sense to us.

aaah.......life.