It is just up to you to learn about emotional abuse. Like I mentioned earlier, it sounds like he always has yet another hoop for you to jump through. You really can't fix someone else's problems. He has trust issues. Most people I believe are good, but sometimes their issues get in the way. I figure, if anyone else were in your position, he would be treating them the same way. He can't trust. You can't fix this. He could if he saw it was his problem. What is it he wants you to change about yourself? Why not find someone who loves you for who you are instead of having to go through all of this? Do you know that you are worth loving just as you are? Or has he convinced you that you are loveable if only you would (fill in the blank in pencil here as the reason will change to keep you walking on eggshells). I care and I think you deserve better. Time to learn about self esteem and how he is chipping away at it. I care. I have been where you are. If this comes across as harsh, I do not mean for it to at all. Hug!