((( wisewoman )))

Your friend was wise too...he knew what was in their hearts.

This happens all the time, even in families that swear it won't. It is very sad.

You said, "hope that I am not named in any will. If I am, I plan on declining."

I say take it and give it to charity. It might buy a little child a smile or a warm coat.

Take care,

Petunia