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Have you asked him to step outside and close the door? Maybe you need to work on your approach. Set up a table and chair outside for him to be comfortable. Relationships are give and take.
I’m a smoker, I don’t throw my butts about, nor do I smoke around children. Even in my own home, when someone brings their child over for a visit I’ll either step outside or go into my room.
The only place I really smoke is in my bedroom. My husband quit smoking 15 years ago, but if he said the smoke was bothering him, I’d happily go outside. But if he told me I wasn’t “allowed” to smoke in the house/car I’d light one up non-stop. I’m an adult and I’ll be double dipped in manure before someone else tells me what I am or am not allowed to do.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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