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Originally Posted by Fool Zero
Sounds like you're self-soothing. I figure there are worse ways to self-soothe but if you find yourself having to do it more than you consider appropriate, here's a suggestion: while you self-soothe with one hand (so to speak), with the other keep looking at what's going on for you that you need all that self-soothing for, and how you might be able to address it that could begin to resolve it for you.
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But what if I use both hands? Haha I'm kidding, maybe.
I think it's a loneliness thing, and that the only 'male affection' I am ever going to get is in my head because I can't have a relationship in real life. I even 'hold hands' with myself sometimes and imagine I'm holding hands someone else, or I put my arm around myself and imagine it's somebody.
I must sound nuts talking about all this...