I’m a heavy smoker and I can’t stand being in car with someone smoking without the windows down, it makes me nauseous. Many of my relatives are smokers that have never smoked in their houses, I can respect those wishes.
Smoking can be a very triggering subjects in families. My mother-in-law was treated very poorly by two of her daughters, I have no doubt that their motives were pure, but their delivery was very rude. I don’t think they know to this day how much they truly hurt her feelings when a “please do not smoke in the house” would have done the job just fine.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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