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Jun 14, 2010, 09:29 PM
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Member Since: Nov 2008
Location: Northeast Louisiana
Posts: 1,709
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Originally Posted by AAAAA
I’m a heavy smoker and I can’t stand being in car with someone smoking without the windows down, it makes me nauseous. Many of my relatives are smokers that have never smoked in their houses, I can respect those wishes.
Smoking can be a very triggering subjects in families. My mother-in-law was treated very poorly by two of her daughters, I have no doubt that their motives were pure, but their delivery was very rude. I don’t think they know to this day how much they truly hurt her feelings when a “please do not smoke in the house” would have done the job just fine.
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There is such thing as tact when dealing with family. You have to be careful when dealing with family. I have learned even though I don't smoke and there is no smoking in my home, other people are different. When I go into someone's home that smokes and smokes in the home, I keep my mouth shut because I choose to go into their home. Thanks for your response.
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