You need support. You need people who accept who you are. He is now blaming you for his stress. That means he is not willing to take responsibility for his own issues. Pretty soon everything that goes wrong becomes your fault. It is not. Are you getting any of this? There will be lots of hoops to jump through...just to many to count. Maybe one day there will be bruises and he will say to you "look what you made me do". Many people on this board know someone like this. Fear will become more and more your companion and love will be a fleeting memory. Please get help now.