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Originally Posted by Fool Zero
It seems to me that this is exactly the sort of discussion that Psych Central is designed to promote. If you did happen to sound nuts to somebody, imo that would say more about them than about you.
Maybe I missed something; I don't get why you can't have a relationship if you're up for one.
It's quite possible that your wanting male affection is not at all the same thing as wanting to be in a relationship with an actual person, and that you might need to sort those out for yourself. (A bit forward of me to suggest that, isn't it? Do I sound nuts now? lol)
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I would like a relationship but I am too terrified of it, I'm scared of intimacy, I have huge trust issues, I have never had a positive male influence and my family has had so many divorces and abusive relationships. Plus I was abused myself (not sexually). So my view of relationships is kind of distorted (well I don't think it's distorted, but everyone else seems to think so).
To be totally honest if I WERE in an actual relationship physical intimacy wouldn't happen, I could barely hold hands with someone let alone have sex with them.