CMFOX
I am a new member here as well.
I want to add to this wonderful group's warm wishes toward you. I wish you the best outcome in this situation whatever that might be. I can only suggest trying to maintain contact with Sarah as a friend and emphazing that she will always hold a place in your heart. It is very hard becoming attached to someone who needs therapy and if that person isn't ready even the mention of it can cause friction. Stay strong and do not endanger your well being. Hopefully she will get help with her unresolved issues and perhaps she what a good man you are and that she does not need to be abused to be loved.


Danielle V.