(((((((belle)))))))
i'm so sorry this guy richard is being so weird with you. i don't know, it almost seems like he's punishing you with how he's acting now. he
sounds like an addict--gotta have his fix right now but once the moment is gone he's over it.
one thing that helped me when i kept choosing players was to remind myself to look at the whole person. there may be some characteristics about someone that i found very appealing, but when i looked at the totality of who a guy was it became pretty clear if he was going to be a good fit for me. also, just ask yourself would any of these guys make a good father. i think richard has shown the answer is clearly no from what you have experienced of him so far.