not sure if you got intimate with Richard....but I get a sense that he has some hidden problem in that department.....and all his anxiety is coming from there....once he knew you are not for him, he was okay....now that you are into him, he pulls out because he's afraid of you solving his problem....
It's just my thoughts....I may be wrong.....but this is based on my own experience.....I've been there and I know that....I felt like what the heck....why after this much chasing, now that I want this guy, he doesn't want me....then after awhile I found out he has problem....poor guy, he couldn't keep it up for more than a minute....that was very sad....and that was a reason to be alone....every single girl were dumping him....so, then he was just getting into the game and when he was wining, he was just moving on because he wanted to be the one to dump the girl, not to get dumped again....funny ha....and poor me to be the victim! I cried so many nights thinking what has happened.....I was stocking him on the internet....now that I look back, I laugh out laud....that was so silly....I was looking for a mirage!!!!
Belle....you will be fine....cry it out and then you will feel better....
take care of yourself
Marjan