Hi Marjan..

As far as intamcy.. we did sleep together once but it didn't really go as planned... He blames the medication that he is on and to be honest I think that most of his anxiety does stem from there.. to put it bluntly he can 'get it up' but it goes no further than that...
I just enjoyed all the cuddles and kisses and time spent together.
We did discuss the problem.. mainly because at the time he was feeling nervous and wanted it to be perfect.. when I said that I was just happy to continue with the kisses and cuddles then he relaxed again (mind you he would get a hard on when we were on the couch, everytime without fail )
I think the pressure is what did end things really.. Last weekend we planned the whole 'viagra' thing.. he got some off a mate and I said I don't think you need it but we can see.. don't take it until the last minute etc...
In the end he started to feel sick (after dinner) but I am now wondering if it was the stress and pressure that made him feel ill...
I did put a bit of pressure on him to sleep with me I guess.. but the 'dirty' text messages and conversations were always started by him so I just replied to them in the same vein...

Long story short we are going to stay in touch, he is seeing his T once a week and once the anxiety is sorted then maybe we will met up and see if the flame is still there....

LOL story of my life... waiting for guys to sort out what they REALLY feel and want..

I can sort of smile about it today... but yeah I am still feeling sad