I third that :-) Kades and Sugahorse...It feels good to be loved by someone who loves you inspite of your weaknesses and failures...For Trippin, the times you felt you were self-absorbed are also those times you were not yourself...you were ill and it is emotionally difficult to reach out to others then. Such states are temporary and once it passes, you become your old generous and loving person again. Just forgive yourself and while you are well, do all the loving you can to those you really care about. Best to us all...