Thanks Marjan

I ended up writing to him on Facebook.. telling him that he was a fibber seeing he was back on RSVP.. wasn't nasty just wished him well in his search.. hopefully he'll find what he is looking for.

I updated what I had written about myself in my online profile..and changed the heading to: "Looking for a nice, cute, smart guy with minimum baggage that wont mess with my head "... I think that says it all