yes, ---

-- to double standards.
Sorry you had a bit of a trigger moment on that site.
and why are insults 95% of the time--degrading females?
"you throw like a girl".....
"he is &ussy whipped"....
The word &lut and ***** are only used against women..... even &astard is meant to degrade the female in the situation.
How many words are there to degrade a man that doesn't degrade a woman simultaneously??? a few, but not many compared to what women are bombarded with.
if women stand up and defend themselves they are beeotches... while men are thought to be strong and of leader quality. If men have an argument they are having a disagreement-- but if women argue-- it's labeled-- "a cat fight" (i hate that label-- women are NOT cats)
Many men secretly VALUE women in porn magazines(or else why would sales be so high?) but in public will ostracize them....

huh?
Oh the imbalance!!
"labels" are more often put on objects/women--
lesbian, cat fight, dike, slut.... etc... etc...
"descriptions" are put on humans--
he is gay(no "lesbianish" label for a man),
they are arguing(no "cat fight" label for men),
he likes to play around(no degrading "slutish" label for him),
he's bossy and has a temper (no "beeotch" label for him).......
.......the patriarchal culture's way of keeping things "in check" for the masses.
label objects, label women........
fins
ps.....
I better get off my soapbox now..... I think people are going to repel me like water on a ducks back
people don't like to hear of this stuff-- many would rather stay behind the curtain in their little brick houses with their white picket fences...
ha! ...as if it doesn't affect them.............