welcome! Sorry things are so crazy for you right now! My husband and I have date night once or twice a month where we get several people to watch our kids (we have three rambunctious boys) and we go out alone. Or sometimes every so often we will just lock ourselves in our room with movies and food. I really feel for you having to do the finances. THANK GOODNESS my hubby does mine. Anyways, wishing you some calm moments in your life.