Thank you everyone for the CONSTUCTIVE information on meds during a pregnancy. AmazonMom, please PM with any info you have on lamictal, I think I'm going to switch back to it for my pregnancy...we can exchange regular emails to continue this conversation.
For everyone else who is suggesting I NOT have a child, whether it be cost, genetic issues etc...I have explained my stance on the issue of genetics.
My husband and I have been unable to have a child, so we are choosing IVF for our family. Period.
We will pay less than $15,000 for 4 tries (if it takes all four to become pregnant), otherwise, it's around $10,000.
Adoption costs $30,000 for a healthy child.
Surogacy costs $70,000, unless I outsource to India or find a friend to carry the child.
These aren't numbers we can work with.
I really appreciate the input, but the original post was for "constructive" idea's on how other women have dealt with medications during a bipolar pregnancy. I'd like to keep this thread open, but please, refrain from commenting if you suggest I shouldn't be a mother, or to try surogacy or anything else other than the decision my husband and I have made. I do appreciate the concern. Being bipolar doesn't remove me from experiencing all life has to offer. I'm stable, "highly functioning", have healthy relationships. I want to be a mom and I will have what I desire. Thank you everyone.