Hugs Thunderbear!!

I think it's good that you spoke up. Depression and anxiety are an illness and he needs to undersatnd that... just because he goes off to work doesn't mean that you are sitting at home having a lovely old time.. the depression can be over whelming and panic attacks are just frightening.

Don't have any regrets about speaking up (i know if it was me once the anger went away I would feel guilty... but there is no reason to, so I just wanted to say that in advance!).

I hope he starts treaing you with more respect and love xx