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Originally Posted by Belle1979
Hugs Thunderbear!!
I think it's good that you spoke up. Depression and anxiety are an illness and he needs to undersatnd that... just because he goes off to work doesn't mean that you are sitting at home having a lovely old time.. the depression can be over whelming and panic attacks are just frightening.
Don't have any regrets about speaking up (i know if it was me once the anger went away I would feel guilty... but there is no reason to, so I just wanted to say that in advance!).
I hope he starts treaing you with more respect and love xx
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Thank you Belle
Yeah he does think I'm just sitting here all pretty having a lovley old time. I tried to tell him about the thoughts in my head and the panic I feel all the time. How physicaly sick it makes me all that. But he does'nt understand. It would'nt be too bad if he tried but he does'nt even do that. I doubt I'll feel quilty about telling him like it was. He needed to hear it. I got over feeling guilty a long time ago. At least now he'll have something to think about at his holier than thou job. I don't mean to sound mean I'm just mad as hell right now.